4 years ago
I had tried to admit myself into the UM Baltimore ...
I had tried to admit myself into the UM Baltimore Washington Medical Center, in Glen Burnie, MD, on 08-02-17 for exhaustion; I hadn't slept more than 1 to 2 hours per day since May 1st, 2017. After signing into the ER, I was sent to triage shortly thereafter. There were two women already in the room when I had arrived, after which, we were joined by another woman a few minutes later. I explained my situation and why I was in this condition:
I am a live-in caregiver that had been caring for a woman who was being mistreated by her daughters. Because I had called protective services, the daughters illegally through me out of the house. Long story short-I hadn't slept in 3 months, I'm sad all the time, and my feet and legs hurt.
I told the women that I just wanted to get a couple of days worth of sleep.
The third woman responded in an unempathetic, unsympathetic, accusatory, condescending, and judgmental manner. I was told that they don't admit people for exhaustion. One of the women stood up for me by stating they do admit people for depression.
I told the third woman that of course I'm depressed then asked her if she had heard me say that everything makes me sad all the time. I also asked wouldn't she be sad if she were homeless and hadn't slept? She said yes but she would be making calls every single day until she had found a shelter. I responded by telling her that she doesn't know what it is like to be homeless and that I had made calls, the shelters were full, and that I'm sure my problems would resolve themselves after I found another live-in job. She then had the audacity to ask if I even had a resume.
She also stated that my feet and legs were only hurting because I do a lot of walking, as if it matters why I was in pain to have it checked, and she accused me of only wanting to be admitted into the hospital so that I could have a place to stay and have something to eat. I stated that I was not interested in food-only rest. The nicer nurse interjected again by stating it would be ok if I did want food.
I was then sent to the section of the ER where the mentally ill patients were kept waiting to see an ER doctor. A woman (nurse ?) came into the room and asked if I were there for just exhaustion. I answered, JUST? This made her irritated; she stated that she wasn't going to argue with me then left the room. I guess no one had put the fact that I was depressed and hurting into the notes.
The ER doctor came into the room to inform me that they couldn't help me, but will do what they can, which was to let me stay for a few hours until the hospital case manager arrived to offer suggestions and resources. I wanted to know why they couldn't keep me. He didn't answer my question. He only stated that they don't admit people for not having slept. I guess he hadn't gotten the memo about my depression and pain either. He said they only treat what is urgently needed. I asked if sleep wasn't needed? He said he wasn't going to argue with me. I asked if he was even going to check my swollen feet and legs as they were painful; he refused then left my room.
I then researched the medical term exhaustion to learn that it can be dangerous and should be looked at by medical personnel. I told one of the other nurses what I had learned, who by the way was suppose to take my vitals, then asked why they were all trivializing my condition. She admitted that they do admit people for exhaustion, but it is up to the ER doctor to make the recommendation. I told her that my heart was racing and wondered why she hadn't taken my vitals.
I gather that these medical professionals assumed that, because I was on medicaid, they were dealing with an uneducated person who wouldn't comprehend being mistreated, dismissed, and disrespected, and that they were ignoring the Hippocratic Oath they had sworn to uphold. I felt like crying, but because they were being so cold towards me, I refused to allow it. I left that hospital more depressed than when I had arrived. Shame on them!!
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