3 years ago
My daughter-in-law went to the ER December 31st, 2...
My daughter-in-law went to the ER December 31st, 2018. I was very shocked by the lack of care and compassion she received. She was having severe abdominal pain and back pain, couldn't sit still and was quietly crying throughout our 5 hour visit. She was assessed by triage quickly, they asked her what her pain level was and she reported 8.5 -9. They apparently wrote it down, but made no further comment about it. Then we proceeded to wait for 3 hours to receive care. The entire time she was writhing in pain, could not get comfortable, vomited, etc. I asked the ER triage nurse multiple times about when she would be seen, with the usual excuse of them being busy and down staff. I have been an RN for 35 years, in Pediatric ICU and School Nursing and was ashamed of what my daughter had to go through. She was finally seen and her nurse Kaitlyn was a poor excuse for a nurse! She also asked what her pain level was, 8, and never addressed it. She said they needed a urine sample and did she need a bedpan, I said could we have the wheelchair to wheel her in the restroom and she said she was afraid she might fall, so it was either the bedpan or she had to walk to the bathroom. What? you would rather have her walk if you are afraid of her falling than use a wheelchair. I walked her to the bathroom, where the nurse was impatiently waiting with the urine cup. I asked several times for some medication for the pain and was told no. I finally asked to speak to the doctor. I met him in the hall where he proceeded to tell me about the opioid crisis and that if he gave her something that in a year, she probably would be addicted. I said she has never been to an ER or a hospital before and is not on any medication. I said it was unnecessary for her to be in pain for 5 hours and not given anything. He then explained why he couldn't give her Toradol (because surgery might be needed) although I do know that Toradol has been given prior to surgeries and the anesthesiologists did use it when I ws in the hospital and I asked about morphine, even 1-2 mg would probably help. He informed me she then would have an ileus. After one dose, it is possible, but better than laying in pain! He then argued with me about giving the morphine and said he would have to tell the head of the hospital why he gave her pain medication. I said fine, tell him I said to! Then he said you want me to give her morphine, I said yes and he said it would be my responsibility then. He continues to demean me by saying she has the softest belly he has ever felt (intimating that she has nothing wrong)! Miraculously the CT scan results just came in and she did not need surgery and there was not anything highly unusual. The nurse said she could have a GI cocktail and some Zofran, which was great. Kaitlyn then said I have the morphine you said you wanted for her, in a very disgusted way. I said no, not now, the GI cocktail with provide pain relief and numbing! Curiously, the doctor did not mention that she had gallstones, we found out later when the report was sent. I wonder if she was having a gallbladder attack, um?! Abdominal pain, back pain, vomiting, low grade fever, no appetite, vomiting. We were not given any specifics of her blood work or urine, just "they were normal", so I don't know if the WBC was slightly elevated or other signs that could have been there. We were then hustled out very quickly with no assistance from Kaitlyn! The whole time I was thinking how jaded the ER staff appeared, having suspicion that everyone is wanting pain medication and willing to spend hours in the ER waiting for it! I certainly know this happens and working in high school I am very aware of the opioid crisis but, to deny a patient the right to have pain lessened, along with her history (which is nothing!) is bordering on negligent. Maybe Kaitlyn could have offered a heating pad, or turn the lights low, try and get her comfortable with changing position and pillows, nope, nothing. I will not ever take my family members to this ER again!