3 years ago
My daddy was a patient in August, and now again in...
My daddy was a patient in August, and now again in October. In August had some bad experiences with a few cnas and a nurse who did not seem to grasp the concept of possessing qualities such as basic human kindness, compassion, & empathy. However, HUGE shout out to Dr. Seth Parsons & Dr. Asif Shakoor whose bed side manner with my dad as well as with his family was beyond remarkable. Would call everyday with video chats and never made me feel rushed with questions or concerns and also treated my father like a human being, not just a patient number in a bed. These two Drs should teach a class on bedside manner to many other Drs and should be the standard to which all health care providers are held too! Both are truly a blessing to the patients and families they care for and a blessing to Hamot and should be recognized and commended! With this visit my daddy had to go into icu with life threatening problems. There are a few nurses that we believe should be highly recognized for going above and beyond with caring for my dad, I m not talking about giving meds, monitoring vitals etc, I m talking about the ones who take the time and compassion to do all the little things in providing comfort, compassion, empathy, gentleness, and genuine concern. There is a HUGE difference in the people who have these qualities versus ones who are just there to do the bare minimum and receive a paycheck. Huge shout out to cvicu south nurses Kim, Sarah, Leslie, and Hannah! These are the names I can remember and should be commended by their superiors in every way. They, Who took the time each day to speak with me on the phone patiently and addressing concerns, and answering my questions without rushing in such a kind manner, to most of all, treating my father as if he were their father, and not just a body in a bed. KIM especially who took the time to call me versus waiting to see if and when I called. As an RN for more than two decades myself, ik medicine in general can do wonders, but so often it s the little things that make all the difference. Random acts of kindness these above named nurses performed. It s treating the Whole Person and not JUST treating a condition. Taking the time to hold a persons hand when they are scared, not just wiping a tear from his face but taking time to genuinely console and reassure a patient, basic human needs that seem to be disappearing at times from the medical field. Taking the time to make sure mouth is clean, putting lotion on dry skin, taking the time to get him out of bed and making sure he was comfortable, to helping him call his only daughter, me, every time he wanted to, making doublely sure he is not sent to same floor , 7 south, as prior visit where some occurrences with a particular nurse and aide were beyond deplorable and with this particular aide, savannah, (Which I will not type last name) abusive. Sadly and sickening that this can occur to an alert and oriented sweet elderly man who never has a mean word for anyone. And Even more sad and disheartening that they continue to be employees in this field at this hospital after I made a complaint. Terrible a few bad eggs can bring down reputation of all th good eggs. Back to cvicu, a big thank u to the icu Drs who all contributed to saving my dads life, God bless you all! And again to dr Parsons, dr shakoor, Kim, Leslie, Hannah, and Sarah, go home with your head held high each day being proud that u didn t just do a job, you put your heart on your sleeve and made a huge difference in the days of a sweet eldering man along with his daughter and son in law, who love him soooo dearly! Thank you and May God bless you, and may the hospital RECOGNIZE and REWARD you all, because people like this are becoming fewer and fewer. You are angels!!