4 years ago
My 14 year old daughter suffers from severe depres...
My 14 year old daughter suffers from severe depression. Sometimes it gets so overwhelming that our only choice is to put her in a facility. She has been in acute care approximately 5 times, at least 2 (maybe 3) of those times were at Coastal Harbor. She even did 6 weeks at a hospital in Atlanta.
I have never really had a problem with Coastal Harbor until this past visit. We checked her in on Thursday night, we were told to come get her on Monday. As we're sitting in the cafeteria signing all the discharge paperwork, we find out that a Dr. R Bishara has diagnosed our daughter with Bipolar Disorder. So, this Doctor that spends 5 to 10 minutes with our daughter, diagnoses her with Bipolar? This is the reason I stated some of her hospitalization history above. This is not our first rodeo. For almost 4 years now, we have had numerous hospitalizations, including an extended stay, COUNTLESS therapy appointments, monthly psychiatrist appointments, numerous pediatrician appointments, all related to her mental health, and no one, NOT A SINGLE OTHER PROFESSIONAL who has spent countless hours (not just 10 minutes) with my daughter has diagnosed her with Bipolar? THERE IS NO MANIA! NONE! ONLY DEPRESSION.
Doctors are quick to throw out that Bipolar diagnosis. I find this dangerous, damaging and quite honestly, unethical.
Not to mention, I grew up with a Bipolar mother. I KNOW the symptoms. I am NOT in denial about my daughter's problems. I just know what she doesn't have. My daughter is NOT Bipolar.
My psychiatrist has asked me numerous times NOT to take her to Coastal Harbor, says he used to be on the board there and stepped down for reasons he wouldn't comment on. I ONLY took her to Coastal Harbor because she seems to like St. Simon's By The Sea too much.
Not only is Dr. R. Bishara wrongly diagnosing my daughter, (s)he never once called to speak to a parent to find out what we, as the parents, are seeing at home behavioral wise. Dr. R Bishara just speaks to a 14 year old for 10 minutes tops and diagnoses Bipolar. NOT GOOD!
On a different note, the lady that helped us with the discharge papers was a real WITCH!! I wish I had gotten her name. I asked our daughter when we left what she did there. She said she was a therapist. So, a parent puts their child into a place like this which pretty much has the parents at the lowest point in their life and we're treated like dirt?
Never again!
P/S: In case anyone from Coastal Harbor actually wants to contact me on this matter, my name is no longer Menser. It's Teresa McGill.