3 years ago
This was my sons first camp experience, I will adm...
This was my sons first camp experience, I will admit he was clumsy at the start of his 2 weeks with YLCC. My son was going to this camp seeking a validatory experience, we have had a difficult year and validation was necesary. I called YLCC and asked before I registered him if they could handle a camper with his experience. They were positive they could.
I dealt with Stu, the owner of the camp, and Ashley, a senior camp counsellor / manager. After the first few days Stu called me and we spoke about my sons behaviour. The last set of words we exchanged was this,
I agreed with Stu that we wanted a validatory experience for my son.
Stu's response "absolutely, we want to make this as positive as possible for both of you, I've been doing this for 26 years, I want to help kids." I was grateful.
By the end of the first week:
Me: But its been a week, I have texted you everyday for an update, you have texted me back that everything is fine.
On Friday 11th August they asked my son to leave.
Their words when I asked why they didn't call me "we have a lot of campers and can't get in touch with you every time something happens." . Stu describing his behaviour "I can't describe it, but its like he walks around" and then trailed off. This is always upsetting for someone of colour to hear the vagueness of why someone not of colour feels fear or upset. But I wanted this to be a positive experience.
Whenever I asked Ashley, she would describe other children being involved, but it was only my son on the final warnings or me on the end of threats of his expulsion.
My son came home today as they asked and this was his last day,
They told him to pack his things and go to the office immediately to wait for my arrival he would be leaving as soon as I got there. They told him he was not allowed to graduate and he was not allowed to say goodbye to his friends because of this incident. He asked to use the washroom and was told no and was made to sit for 2 hours to wait for me and was told not to move. The incident: some other camper took the bell and hid it.
Ashely calls me clearly upset. She tell me this: "He had nothing to do wth this incident but I had to ask him 6 times before he would tell me what I needed to know, he was disrespectful and you need to come and get him." I simply replied ok, I was on my way anyway.
When they told me to come and get him Ashley's exact words, 'lets end this on a high, let him graduate and have a graduation ceremony and not risk the positive experience." Yet were happy to burst into his cabin, tell him to pack his stuff immediately and sit in the office until I got there. The camper who took the bell, attended the graduation ceremony and experienced no repercussions for his behaviour. His experience was positive when he was with other campers or more junior counsellors, his experience and mine with both Ashley and Stu was negative, and when he was told that I was having these conversations up until Friday he was bitterly saddened. If your child resembles mine in any way then this is not the camp for you.