Aulani is a solid hotel with a light Disney theme ...

Aulani is a solid hotel with a light Disney theme covering a tired look. The pools and water splash area are great and pleasant to get to, through the greenery walk. The beach area is small but clean and calm to hangout for children or adults. The staff is professional. I think the restaurant there is called Ama Ama and it's delicious. The other food option are bar food or not worth the cost. I would value the stay there at $250-$300 Max. Ofcourse it's 3 times more than that. I spent an overall $1k per night there not including airfare for 2 adults 2 toddlers.

They offer kids activity there and it's great from what I saw.

I just didn't get a memorable experience. It was just another hotel.

Would I go back? Yes
would I be missing out if I don't go there? No