We were doing engagement photos at the Hyatt while...

We were doing engagement photos at the Hyatt while we were dressed up. It was a gorgeous place, and we were thinking about the possibility of staying there one night. We made sure we were out of the way of any guests. A guy came up and told us we were not allowed to take pictures because our photographer didn't call them first, even though he knew him and hadn't had issues there before. I have no desire to stay there due to his rudeness. I wouldn't have taken offense if he came to us gently and told us the situation instead of treating us like dirt.