4 years ago
One of my biggest pet peeves is having someone pre...
One of my biggest pet peeves is having someone prejudge a person.
Let me explain. We were on a weekend trip to New Orleans and while we did pack appropriate dinner attire, the weather was uncharacteristically cold that evening and I called ahead to find out whether jeans would be appropriate to wear to dinner given our circumstances and the surprisingly cold evening. I was assured that our clothing would not be questioned and not to worry. Luckily the gentlemen in our group where still dressed appropriately and unfortunately the ladies chose to wear jeans and nice tops rather than the original dresses we had planned.
The evening started out nicely, the hostesses where gracious and had us wait at the bar while our table was prepared. The bartender was sweet and attentive giving excellent suggestions regarding the different drinks that were offered. So far a lovely experience.
Now here is where the evening started to be a bit awkward. As we sat down to our table the waiter listed out the specials for the night accentuating the price of the dishes. No big deal right? Well the only problem is that he did not do this for any other table around us. It was rather a glaring way of stating that we needed to be careful regarding what we ordered due to the prices.
Just as a side note, one of my favorite hobbies is to dine at Michelin rated restaurants, therefore this wasn't mine nor my friends first experience at a fine dining establishment. Granted our outfits may have not met the typical dress code but I have been to many acclaimed restaurants and have dressed similarly due to one circumstance or another and have never been treated in such a dismissive manner.
Now, some of you might be wondering if the waiter was just trying to be helpful explaining the prices so that we would not be shocked by the bill later. Please let me assure you that there is a marked difference between being helpful and being arrogant. No big deal we brushed it off, after all we definitely didn't look liked we belonged.
We then asked for a recommendation for a wine. Again our waiter was a bit put off by the request especially when we requested a bottle rather than a glass. I'm not quite sure why the request was so surprising, again the only thing I can assume was off putting was the way we were dressed because I can't for a moment actually believe that anything else regarding our group would have caused alarm.
Truthfully, I felt as if the staff was waiting for us to dine and dash. Why, I have no clue but this perception was echoed by the rest of the members in our group. It was an odd feeling to be so out of place due to what we were wearing which quite honestly was not that inappropriate.
Let's talk food. The dishes where sized as to be expected in this type of restaurant. Overall the food was delicious but by no means the best I have ever had, but it did have potential.
Now the price, very worth it. With the amount of fuss we received regarding the pricing of the wine and dishes I expected at least a $600 bill for the four of us. Surprisingly we paid about $300 including the wine (which was definitely on the cheaper side but still wonderful), cocktails, appetizers and main entrees.
Minus the oddly dismissive behavior I would definitely go back but this time dressed appropriately to see how the service would differ. Actually I think I will plan a trip for that exact reason. I hope that the service would be similarly displeasing so that I could lay to rest the uneasy feeling I had regarding the disapproving glare we received from some of the staff members which I can only hope was because of the way we were dressed and not for some other more minatory reason.