3 years ago
This seems to be a beautifully maintained shelter ...
This seems to be a beautifully maintained shelter full of dedicated volunteers and staff! I've visited here twice hoping to adopt a cat and the receptionists were very friendly! My first visit, I hoped to adopt a kitten I had seen online. Unfortunately, he was unavailable, but I have since been told that he was adopted by a loving home, which I was delighted to hear. It is great to see that the adoption counselors care so deeply about placing the animals in the proper home.
The second time I visited, I was hoping to meet with a 1-year-old cat I saw online. I don't remember my adoption counselor's name, but she met with me before taking me to see the cat and was very informative about his personality, as he was quite rambunctious and had been returned to the shelter before. I could tell she was very passionate about the animal's well-being, which is wonderful!
She then took me to see the cat and allowed me to play with him in a separate room, which was great. I bonded with the cat and decided I was ready to adopt. I returned to the counselor, assuming that she would not have allowed me to bond with the cat had she thought my home was not a good fit for the animal. However, she said that she needed to speak with my "husband" before I could go through with the adoption; I informed her that I am unmarried and live with my mother (I am 24), who is the primary homeowner and whose name I had listed alongside mine on the adoption form. I completely condone the shelter policy that she speak with the primary homeowner before signing off on the adoption, and I gladly gave her my mother's phone number. [My mother and I had been discussing adopting a cat for several months at this point, as our cat of 19 years had passed away the year before; my mother spotted this 1-year-old cat online earlier and told me to go to the shelter with her blessing to adopt if we got along.]
Upon receiving my mother's number, the counselor left the room rather abruptly to call her; I thought this was a little odd, excluding me from the conversation despite my being an adult and an active member of the household. Truth be told, I felt a bit like a child sitting in the principal's office! I am sure this was not the counselor's intention, but it was perhaps not the most courteous treatment. She returned a few minutes later and informed me that she spoke with my mother and had informed her of this cat's wild behavior, and advised that I go home and speak with my mother further about how we might proof our home for this cat if we still wanted to adopt. As this cat had been returned for his antics to the shelter before, I completely understood her concerns, and thanked her for her time as I left the shelter. I would never begrudge a shelter employee for putting an animal's needs first.
When I got home, I spoke with my mother, who had concerns about the cat's activity level, as the counselor had apparently told her over the phone that he was quite destructive and would knock everything down from our tabletops like lamps, picture frames, etc. I think it was responsible of the counselor to bring these issues to light, as it made my mother and I have an honest discussion about whether we thought we could provide the proper home for this cat. My only issue, however, is how the counselor went about communicating this cat's idiosyncrasies to us. I think it may have been more polite and less mystifying had she called my mother with me present, or instructed me to return to the shelter the following day with my mother in person so that the three of us could talk together. I could not help feel condescended to when she removed me from the discussion to consult with my mother privately, as though casting doubt on my legitimacy being there representing my family in the adoption. There was an uncomfortable air of interrogation to the way she "separated" us.
I truly appreciate the dedication these counselors have to the animals. I still wholeheartedly hope to come back here one day and adopt a cat. I only wish I had been treated with a bit more decency. Thank you!