I had a fantastic dinner, but I over herd our male...

I had a fantastic dinner, but I over herd our male server saying to the bartender to shut the f-up (Anne or Amy) I am not sure! The look on her face! The look on her face! I She actually had to delivered our drinks because our server forgot them and we never got our appetizers! As a bartender if servers do not do this we will make the drink again and when you are busy it s bad for you and the restaurant! I felt really bad for her! The food was delicious but the service was lacking! Next time we will go to the bar she did not deserve that!