ive been having a miscarriage for a month, one of ...

ive been having a miscarriage for a month, one of the longest miscarriages the doctors all admit they've seen, yesterday my contractions and cramps started getting so bad I couldn't take it anymore so I went in trying to see if it's safe to wait for my D&C till Monday, after waiting almost 6 hours in the waiting room (typical), I'm sent to the back to be given some norcos and told there nothing they could do for me. Today I went back because the pains worse and the bleeding is (tmi) just pouring out of me, so the advice nurse said I need to go right in, where they express so much how much I've been there making it extremely embarrassing, and at first the doctor said for me not eat or drink anything I'll probably get a Emergancy D&C, so I'm sitting in the waiting room after seeing him from 1pm to 6:30pm doubled over in pain and not even able to take a sip of water, just to be taken to the back, given the most painful pelvic exam of my life by a student doctor, who didn't even warn me she was practicing by the real doctor and just let her practice on me in so much pain! And then told even though I'm heavily bleeding my blood work pretty much shows I'm ok so they can't do the Emergancy D&C and go home...so I just started bleeding this heavy, they didn't even keep me over night to see if my blood loss started effecting me by morning, instead I'm at home in the middle of the night terrified in pain and watching my bleeding get worse, knowing I can't go back in to be told I'm not bad enough again and sit in a awful waiting room 5 hours. I have to young kids at home, god forbid anything happens to me till Monday...(ps I've received absolute zero compassion or care from ANYONE at this hospital about my miscarriage and they're treating me like I'm this burden, who the heck is running this awful place?!)