Went to Vespaio for my wife's 40th anniversary din...

Went to Vespaio for my wife's 40th anniversary dinner. We were seated 30 minutes after our reservation time. Despite calling ahead and letting them know that it was a special dinner, waiter never acknowledged the birthday or even asked what brought us in tonight. Our party was crammed into a table that was too small for 7 people, and our waiter was MIA for most of the dinner. It took an hour for our entrees to be ready from the time we ordered. My wife and I have visited Vespaio before, but the restaurant has changed. Not impressed this time.