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I was schedueled for a c-section. I was to be ther...

I was schedueled for a c-section. I was to be there specifically on November 12th 2018 at 10 am to welcome my son into the world. There the doctor (who shall remain nameless until further notice) came in as they were "prepping" me and felt my stomach. Probably measuring the baby which might I add is highly inaccurate. She then looked at my paper which I never got back and said "i really dont know why you're having a c section hes not even 7 pounds." Which after 5 measuring ultrasounds in a month getting over 8 pounds what am i to believe. She then started pushing me for an induction which i was trying to deny. Sent me into a panic attack with my fiance (who is also my sons father) right there freaking out as well. I told her I wanted the c section reguardless of what she said. She and the 2 nurses who were with her kept DENYING ME WHAT WAS ALREADY APPROVED all because they though they knew better then the woman who monitored my ENTIRE pregnancy and a high risk specialist obgyn! I told thethem i would leave if they werent going to listen and they said I wasnt allowed to leave, I WAS 22 YEARS OLD (i am now 23). They also talked badly about my OB Dr. Kelly saying she did me a "disservice". After an hour of them literally hounding me I went into labor and delivery for an induction against my wishes! The next morning an amazing doctor, dr.tobia came and was suprized I agreed to the induction. When i explained briefly the situation he said "look anytime you want even if you do get the pitocin give me the word and I'll take you for a c section" he was so calm and nice i was able to FINALLY calm down and decided to give the induction a full try knowing it wouldnt work lmao. I was in full labor for a while and pushing for a few hours. My son got stuck so it ended up being a c section anyways. Here's where it get complicated. My epidural wouldnt work at that point and neither would the spinal block. So I had to be put to sleep. Dr. Jackson did my c section and my son was born at 8:14 a.m. November 14th 2018. But I guess I had never mentioned I'm allergic to most adhesives and they put skin glue on it with stitches. Not their fault on that one and I dont know if that one counts but man did my incision feel better when it came off! If the first doctor had or has done this to anyone else I encourage you to speak out. Me and my son might be ok but stress is never good for baby or mom! I didnt remember you could post reviews so sorry about this. Other then the first doctor and her two minions everyone was great. Brownies were my favorite. Also I think they need a better communacation system between doctors and nurses because I didnt know what an abdominal binder was and jesus I needed one! And even though i wanted to talk with a lactation consultant i never even saw one come in my room and i never did skin to skin because i didnt know the benefits (first time mom) so yeah if you go there at all always remember if you arent clear on something demand answers! And if you are uncomfortable with the doctor you can request to see someone else whenever you please! Their paycheck is not important to me what is important to me is the life of those i care about. And I pray to God someone from the hospital staff sees this and makes sure to help not just the women in maturnity but all the people in the hospital!

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