4 years ago
I just want to clarify that my review is based on ...
I just want to clarify that my review is based on personal experience from February 2018. My review is also not towards any of my nurses or midwives or staff of West Suburban Hospital that cared for me while I was there. This is a review on
The hospital itself.
My husband and I chose West Suburban Medical Hospital as our place to birth our last and final baby because they had a birthing center where I would be able to do an all natural water birth. We carefully chose our insurance and paid a very high premium to ensure I could birth there and see midwives affiliated with this hospital. We took the tour back in September of 2017, I believe, and made sure we could bring our 18 month and 11 year old children. We are a family that literally has no one but each other. So we wanted to make sure bringing the kids to stay would not be a problem. Which they ensured us it wouldn't be a problem and the kids are more than welcomed to stay! So we were all hands on deck with West Suburban as our hospital!
Fast forward to January and closer to my due date, we talked about a tubal ligation and I found out I had a hernia, which they would fix both when at the hospital. Check and check!
Fast forward to February 2018 all of a sudden it says on the walls everywhere at my Midwives' office that it would be a maximum of 4 guests the entire visit. No one under 16 is allowed. HOLD ON... this isn't what was discussed during the birthing tour. And we made very clear we are due in February... I was 39 weeks when this sign was posted. And now freaking out because there is only 1 other center in the whole area that is a free standing birthing center and all the way in Berwyn, IL. West Suburban is already 30 minutes, no traffic, no highway access from our home. I did try to see if my insurance would make an exception and the birthing center was willing to make an exception for my family. In the end, that didn't work out because my insurance wouldn't cover a reimbursement for a center out of network.
So, early morning Feb 12th I went into early labor about 2am and by the time we arrived to the hospital it was about 530am. I met my midwife through the after hour doors to head into triage. My husband had our 18 month old and was going to meet me in triage with our daughter. ER would not let them through. I was 7cm dilated when in triage. Me and my husband and daughter were now separated and my Doula had not arrived yet. About 15 minutes later, my Doula showed up, so I was not alone. Both our sitters were at work. I had asked and requested several times to the head nurse who would not even come and say no to my face that my husband and daughter could not be here with me. My husband had no choice but to leave our daughter in Skokie which is over an hr and a half away in rush hr traffic on a Monday. My husband didn't make it to the Birth of our daughter because he had to go back and forth around the Chicagoland area all because some lady on her high horse would not allow our daughter in. I think this is horrible that you do this to families and pregnant woman birthing. You put an extensive amount of stress on me during the actual pushes of my labor because I was mentally fighting for my husband to be there with me. But you can't control birth, it is natural. You should also be ashamed of the trauma my 18 month old now suffers because again, I made it very clear that I have never spent a night away from my daughter. The past 2 nights I have been home, she has the saddest cry of fear I will not be there when she wakes up. I didn't even get to hug my daughter goodbye for 3 days I was recovering. If I had option to choose over, I would not have chosen West Suburban Hospital. Great nurses, midwives, and OR doctors, Lousy head nurses and accommodations for families who don't choose or have a choice to leave their children with other people. Btw... your food tastes like cardboard. Worst hospital food EVER.