5 years ago
I placed my father, a veteran, in the care of this...
I placed my father, a veteran, in the care of this facility years back as he had dementia, was sometimes agitated, confused, requiring around the clock care.
At first, things were okay, however, quickly noticed that the nurses over medicated my father for their convenience, telling me that they couldn t handle him without high doses of Lorazepam. I found out that this is illegal to do in patients. I would have taken him home at this first bad sign, but even I couldn t take care of my father 24/7, so waited to see how things progressed. Shortly after, his personal items went missing, and I would find my father on the bed looking like a vegetable, being over medicated so that the staff wouldn t have to deal with him. I kept asking the head nurse to reduce the amount of medications so he isn t like a zombie, and kept getting the runaround excuse.
Being I had power of attorney for my father, they were to notify me of any changes in his health. The facility failed in this miserably as evidenced by my father developing bedsores on his tail bone area, failed to turn my father over in accordance to how a patient is needed when the first sign of bedsores developed, failed to notify me when this occurred.
To make matters worse, I received a phone call one evening from one of the CNA staff sounding frantic as she did not know what to do. She stated my father wasn t doing well so I asked for her to get the nurse, but the CNA told me that there wasn t one on the floor to get , so I told her to immediately call 911 to take my father to the hospital. It was not until I talked with the hospital doctor to learn about the stage 4 bedsores had occurred on my fathers tailbone/buttocks area, and having kidney failure, no blood transfusion to treat his anemic state. I was in a state of shock.
Is this the place you would leave your loved one to receive this type of neglect??
I took my father home at that point, being the doctor advised me that he has maybe two weeks to live.
As a healthcare worker, this type of treatment is unacceptable, and I advocate for others so that they don t end up like my father did; over medicated, neglected alone in a room, not notifying me of any health changes, not taking him for blood transfusion, when needed.
My father passed away two weeks after leaving the hospital.