3 years ago
Throughout my pregnancy, I was dealing with pretty...
Throughout my pregnancy, I was dealing with pretty severe sciatica pain. Into my third trimester, I started to develop different symptoms. I went into the Women s Clinic weekly and was describing my pain that it hurt in my pelvis and down the front of my leg. I was continued to be told that what I was feeling was normal for pregnancy. The doctors chalked it up to me being a first time mom and that he was sitting low into the birth canal. I rarely saw my Primary (Dr. Krause)-I was given whoever was available. In a period of 5 weeks, I saw four different doctors all at the Women s Clinic. I was mis-diagnosed by ALL FOUR doctors. I WAS REFERRED TO A MASSAGE THERAPIST WHICH COULD HAVE KILLED ME AND MY UNBORN SON. (Dr. Reeves is who referred me to the massage therapist).
The pain got so bad, my left leg was swollen to three times the normal size, I was not sleeping, and could no longer walk. I also had bruising that was surfacing under the skin. I knew this was not normal . I checked myself into (yes, drove myself), into the ER at Medical Center of the Rockies. It took a nurse to look at my leg after the doctor had dismissed my symptoms claiming it was a nerve-not to mention five failed attempts at an IV They finally did an Ultrasound and found a blood clot. I had no blood flow from my belly button to the back of my leg. Not only was I mis-diagnosed, once they found the blood clot, the incompetence continued by the staff. The doctors did not get my pain under control, they never elevated my leg or put compression socks on. Finally, on day 5, a doctor finally came forward and told us we were in the wrong hospital for care. (Thank you Dr. Haney for being the only one who cared about my welfare).
I was transferred to PSL in Denver, and within 3 hours, I was on pain medication that got my pain under control, had compression socks on, my body was elevated, and had talked with a surgeon.
The mis-diagnosis all started a domino effect of what my son and I are dealing with now and will deal with for the rest of our lives.
With all of the contracting in my mid-section, (the blood clot effected my uterus, stomach, bladder, etcc). My son was born a month early and was born within 8 minutes of getting to the hospital. (I delivered at McKee and had a great experience).
My son is on full time oxygen from the premature birth and precipitous labor. He will be on oxygen for at least 6 more months. We are seeing specialists and doctors for both him and me every week. I will be dealing with the blood clot and blood clot symptoms the rest of my life.
All of this could have been avoided if.. the doctors were competent. If the doctors had listened to me If the doctors had compassion and empathy. If the doctors treated my like a human being and not a number. I have not gotten a single phone call from anyone from the Women s Clinic or MCR to check how my son or I are doing.. But now I am for sure hearing from the billing department on a daily basis.
The depression and heartache I have felt and still feel, is beyond words. I truly feel as I have been betrayed by people who I thought I could trust.
Here are my suggestions to you reading this:
-Get LOTS of opinions from LOTS of different doctors all from different locations.
-Ask LOTS of questions.
-We know our bodies and our children better than the doctors. TRUST yourself.
-Be an advocate for yourself. If you can t, get an advocate that YOU KNOW and TRUST.
-Get a primary doctor that YOU KNOW AND TRUST, and that they KNOW YOU AND TRUST YOU. Even in great health, things can happen quickly, and being in good hands could save your life.