4 years ago
I went to Mary Greeley to give birth, because my f...
I went to Mary Greeley to give birth, because my family was nervous about non-hospital births. I came with a birth plan to try and get some things out of the way -- no formula for my baby, no circumcision if it's a boy, no pushing to get an epidural, etc.
In the end, despite them saying that I didn't need to be checked regularly if I didn't want to, they sent in a nurse every 30 minutes to do so anyway. They put me on Pitocin, and botched the epidural I ended up getting, giving me 2 weeks of intense epidural headache.
Dr Nau said that my birth plan jinxed me, and that my son needed to be fed formula, which he proceeded to give him. A nurse later on told me I could pump instead. Thanks, Dr Nau, for not suggesting that first.
Also, no one told me I could eat. I thought everything had to be paid for as they gave me a menu with prices. I spent 3 days drinking juice boxes without anyone checking in to see if I was nourishing myself.
When I was still pregnant, I told them I had a slight pain on my side, which I had had a long time before getting pregnant, and they said I needed an ultrasound because it might be an ectopic pregnancy. I said I didn't want to and wanted an alternative. They said there were none. I told them about the blood test that measures hormones. They moaned and said OK. I got it, and they said I was fine. Thanks for not suggesting the blood test.
And finally, I was vitamin D deficient, and no one thought of testing me. I got gestational diabetes, a condition caused in half the cases by a D deficiency, and they didn't even think about it. How about keeping up with the latest research?
In the end, I'm pretty sure that if I had not been set on breastfeeding, it wouldn't have worked, and if I hadn't been set on a vaginal delivery, they would have given me a C section. I am most definitely not giving birth there next time, and will opt for a birth center instead.
If you're into natural childbirth, breastfeeding, and being left alone while you labor, stay away from that hospital. Or, get many people with you to advocate for you, because when you're in labor, you definitely won't be in the right mindset to be your own lawyer.