This homophobic company's web portal won't allow m...

This homophobic company's web portal won't allow me to add my husband as a covered "spouse" but instead shows an insulting error message that reads: "Your Spouse cannot have the same 'Gender' as yourself." Three problems with that:
1. He does have the same gender as me.
2. Same- sex marriage has been legal in some areas of the US for a decade.
3. We notified BRMS of this issue more than two months ago and nothing has changed.

I'm a technology professional. The fix for this issue involves at most two lines of code. The company shows no willingness to resolve the issue correctly.