I attended a baby shower here and immediately left...

I attended a baby shower here and immediately left after only a few mins. No one was at the front desk to tell myself or the other women what to do. And as I had never been to a tea house....I needed help. A random customer tells me I need to grab a cup so I do and I go to the back room where the shower is held. The waitress/hostess never once looked at me (I was standing right in front of her) and I told her I needed help and she didn t respond to me. I stood around while everyone else got their tea and then I gave up and left.