At first I thought that I was good at Trias and wa...

At first I thought that I was good at Trias and was happy with the guidance.
Only when my foster child was more or less kidnapped by Youth Care, would (when she was just staying away) in consultation with Trias, let us as foster family be left completely out in the cold! That while the child was getting better and better.
We had it checked and the child had another trauma!
I did not expect that and has been very traumatizing for the youngster, her mother and our family and it still feels that way!