This is for Kathy Blair. Rating for under a week i...
This is for Kathy Blair. Rating for under a week is not advised. Any place can look good for a week. I have ten years experience with this place and I wouldn t put a dog there. Residents are uniformly fearful of complaining because inevitably they will receive worse treatment afterwards. I have seen the most despicable treatment of elderly ill people I have ever seen in my lifetime including mental abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse and more. You need to be around A LOT and at different times when you re not expected. Places can have beautiful grounds, lovely rooms to gather, and the most professional people at the top of the organization. You see that well educated lovely person at the top once a year. What matters are the people the resident encounters on a daily basis, those who dress, wash, help transfer and feed if needed and clean the rooms. These are the ones that count. They are also the worst paid and the least educated. They are the ones mentioned above that your loved one will never complain about because they fear retaliation but will never tell you that. These employees are nice when you are there. A different story when you are not. If you saw three long term care homes and this was the best that s believable. What isn t believable is the rest of your post. If you and other family members are around A LOT, and I mean, A LOT, write the same again in a year. And most importantly, it doesn t matter how close you think you are, your relative is NEVER going to tell you the negative things because they don t want you to know nor to worry. Check constantly for bed sores, bruises, etc. Don t take the staff s word on anything. Get a hidden nanny cam. If you can find a way, take your mother home after she s sufficiently recovered. Then you won t have to blame yourself and feel guilty when she s no longer around.
Not a good place to be. I would rate it zero stars if I could.
Good luck. You ll need it.