4 years ago
TLDR: Rita is a perfect lifesaving gem who is a ma...
TLDR: Rita is a perfect lifesaving gem who is a master of both her craft AND getting the best out of the humans she works with.
We were introduced to Rita at Heirloom by our first photographer, who I had chosen because I wasn't local, and he did a good job at my college roommate's wedding. Unfortunately, he had a technical issue that led them to double book, and they couldn't do our wedding. I'm starting with this to say two things: 1) This was a VERY overwhelming situation. We don't live in KC, and we thought we had such a big piece of our day settled. Rita totally took over though, and put us at ease with her style of photography and her personality (more on both below). We immediately felt at ease more confident, even that we were going with her. I seriously never looked back.
2) When I did my original Googling/Knotting, Heirloom didn't really register on the first couple pages. However, it should totally be in the top search results for "Kansas City wedding photographer." The fact that it's not (yet) is definitely more because Rita is a world-class photographer, not necessarily a marketer. It's easy to get overwhelmed with choices and to use search results and ratings to help you feel more secure, but Heirloom is a super pro company that you should feel 1000% confident engaging with.
So, the actual process. We wanted a photographer with an artist's perspective, who could feel in the moment what they should shoot, and shoot it. We were looking for photos that skewed more towards documentary I said I wanted to look at the photos and think, "I KNOW that look" or "I can HEAR that person laugh just like that." Secondly, we are pretty low key and took forever to get married partially because weddings can be so canned. Thirdly, we wanted art to hang on our walls. All to say, we didn't want someone that bought a $500 camera and relies on what is cool on Pinterest and like, makes me jump on a bed with my bridesmaids. All of this aligned with Rita's philosophy. She does a few portraits and group shots because she believes you'll want that standard photo for years to come (true), but between her and the second photographer, I'd say 80% of our photos were BRILLIANT candid shots that I will use to teach my children how their great grandparents danced or how their smile (or whatever) is like their aunt. The other 20% are beautiful portraits that I am printing in large scale for my walls.
A nice surprise, and something I didn't think about, was vetting photographers for their personality and how you click with them. I underestimated how intricate a part of the day they are they watch you get dressed, they witness your most intimate moments together so it makes sense that they should "fit in" with you and your partner. We are pretty low key and wanted someone we could trust to do their thing and who would take charge but who would help us feel at ease. Rita nailed this. She is very extroverted but also very emotionally intelligent she can both read and wrangle the room, and she prioritizes the experience of the bride and groom. I can't emphasize this whole part enough. 80% of our delay of a wedding was anxiety around being the center of attention and not wanting to deal with trying to be "those people" who look so glamorous and at ease. Rita was great at making us laugh and fitting her photos to be authentic to us and our style, rather than the other way around.
Boring but important stuff: the pricing was VERY fair, and the deadlines were kept.