After living in Colorado for 56 years, it was time...
After living in Colorado for 56 years, it was time to downsize and move out of my large home and closer to my roots. It was one of the most difficult decisions and processes of my life. The process took several years for me and my significant other to think about, discuss and visit in person.
After about a dozen facility visits in Iowa communities, we found Cottage Grove Place in Cedar Rapids. It felt "right" for us, plus many family members live nearby.
A common expression among seniors is "we're just not quite ready", which we can relate to. After living here for a year, in retrospect, I am glad we didn't postpone the process any longer.
We plan to participate more in the variety of things to do here, while maintaining our individuality and privacy. Although a difficult decision and process, we feel confident it was necessary and worth the effort. We both agonized over giving up so many "things" with many memories attached, to a different community and lifestyle.
Purging is not easy; nor is leaving the familiarity of home, neighborhood, community, church, friends and much accumulated "stuff".
A period of grieving is to be expected, but we are both grateful we chose Cottage Grove Place, where the staff is dedicated and committed to helping us look positively forward to a new way of life.
Plus, Coping with Covid-19 and the Derecho has been much more tolerable here.