3 years ago
Reviews are based on ones personal experience/opin...
Reviews are based on ones personal experience/opinion and the level of success the entity being reviewed has had in fulfilling it's expressed mission/purpose. I will share my thoughts on both within the parameters of proper and truthful speech.
I grew up in Congregation Beth Messiah. Coming from a non-denominational Christian background, it was very much what my family needed at the time we began attending and was a fundamental introduction into Torah concepts such as Shabbat, the feastivals, and basic Jewish customs. There are many kind and good hearted people in this congregation who are predominately from a gentile Christian background. Of the handful of halachically Jewish individuals, it's main appeal is to interfaith couples. An appropriate description of the level of observance, knowledge of the the mitzvot, and spiritual and cultural climate of the community is "Reform Judaism meets Christianity."
Over the years, as I have grown in my own pursuit of Torah, understanding of Judaism, and desire to live an observant lifestyle I began to feel increasing pushback and ostracized from individuals in the community and leadership.
My main criticism of CBM based on personal experience is...
Complete lack of Jewish Leadership and oversight. No one in leadership is halachically Jewish, has any sort of Jewish background or education, nor a current connection to the Jewish community whatsoever. As a result of this gross lack of Jewish influence and perspective on the Torah, #1 what is passed off as "authentic Judaism" is a measly distortion of what Judaism is really all about #2 there is a definite anti-rabbinic / anti-orthodox vibe which is an acceptable regurgitated form of antisemitism and perpetuates false Christian doctrines while simultaneously misguiding well meaning but rather uninformed people about Judaism #3 The few people in the community who are Jewish and WANT to retain their Jewishness or even non-Jews who WANT to walk out a more observant Torah based lifestyle get hurt or pushed out. #4 Nothing about this congregation lends itself to living and observing a traditional Jewish or Torah observant lifestyle. #5 At the time I was involved in this congregation, there was virtually no Torah learning... on any level. It is very uncommon for an actual synagogue to sit vacant six days a week.
To be fair, I don't believe that any level of commitment to observance is currently listed in their mission statement but I do know that many people promote it as such.
If you are looking for a place to participate in solid Torah learning or a community in which you have the freedom and encouragement to embrace Torah and grow in your traditional observance, I can not in good conscience recommend this congregation.
If you are a non-Jew looking to embrace the universal truths of the Torah and have access to Torah learning, I highly recommend Netiv - A Center For Torah Learning. It is an established local Noahide community that has oversight and involvement with the local orthodox community! You can research them online, Facebook, or even watch numerous Torah classes on their YouTube page.
If you are Jewish, I strongly urge you to check out organizations like Torch - Connecting Jews to Judaism for quality Torah classes and amazing events! Also, we are so fortunate to have two phenomenal outreach synagogues (Torah Vachesed / Meyerland Minyan) in our area that cater to Baal Teshuvim - Jewish individuals who are coming back to their roots and learning Torah for the first time! At either of these shuls you will be met with love, acceptance, and the encouragement and support you need to grow in your understanding of Torah and observance. Come see for yourself.