My son did something stupid that he regrets terrib...

My son did something stupid that he regrets terribly. He smoked a little pot and quit, now the judge from Marion is sending him there. The judge was very hard on him for what he did. I called to get a little info like when can I bring his personal effects ETC. The woman I spoke to was horribly rude and VERY unprofessional. Talked like people I work with off the street. Oh did I say I was an advocate for drug addicts? God help my son! Because I cant!! Very worried mother!!!