I'm amazed that servers & other assiciates at the ...

I'm amazed that servers & other assiciates at the hotel have little energy or engagement with guests. We had breakfast twice and dinner once. At each sitting, a server approached us and asked, "are you ready to order?" It was never, "Good morning", "Good evening", "How are you?". Also, no one asked if we wanted to start dinner with a cocktail or appetizer, just "ready to order?" Once we did order, drinks took forever (e.g., 30 minutes to obtain coffee after ordering at breakfast). We won't be back!