I called to ask about a cpu fan for my new pc im b...

I called to ask about a cpu fan for my new pc im building but was treated like I didn't know much about what I was doing. I was met with a question of "who is buiding the pc? You or your husband?" Im not sure why my gender has anything to do with building a computer but it has certainly made me uncomfortable. I was also being upsold on equipment I don't need. A cpu fan shouldn't cost someone almost $60 and I definitely don't need a liquid cooling system. Hopefully no one else gets duped into buying things they don't need for their computer and also won't be treated differently based on their gender.