I was so upset that I suggested the country club...

I was so upset that I suggested the country club to my
Ocean city NJ and Calif, cousins to use for their Mothers Funeral luncheon I have been with members their several times
When we arrived there was no one, to tell us what room to go to, we did find someone who said you are downstairs then when we entered the doorway we were met by a young lady who told us the menu and ordered us to tell the waiter what we wanted to eat all this in the hallway ??? The service was slow and the food was cold & Blah
That was 2 days ago I have been telling the family how sorry I am since !