When you have a family member in the ICU it would ...

When you have a family member in the ICU it would be nice if you can call to check on them without the nurses being disrespectful to you or lecturing you on you're own health. I just want to know the status of my family member that is in critical condition nothing else. Hopefully my family member stabilizes and is able to be moved elsewhere anywhere would be better then where she is now.
UPDATE: It's now been two weeks with no response from the case manager after leaving voicemails asking to call back, every doctor and nurse has a different story about how she is doing one says I need to let her go another says she is the best patient on the floor. This hospital is awful please just get her stable enough to move her this is beyond ridiculous.