We brought our son to Resolution Ranch in August o...

We brought our son to Resolution Ranch in August of 2017 for dealing drugs and all the mess that ensues. He went in completely apathetic; "I don't belong here, I'm not like these other kids, my parents are crazy". It took about three months before I saw a shift in our son; accountability for his actions, acknowledgement of the pain he caused our family and himself. His therapist, Brandon Rodriguez was right on when he explained to us that it takes some time before the boys realize that the manipulations they may have used at home or on the street will not work at the ranchand they finally man up and start the personal work that they need to do. This is not a militant program, and that is why we chose Resolution Ranch. I felt the goal of the staff was not to break down the boys and build them up but rather assist the boys with introspection and reflection, and show them the real connection between their choices and the consequences that follow. It is my opinion that there is no need to bully or scream at someone to get them to comply and I knew that approach would not benefit our son. There IS major structure and boundaries at this ranch but it is done with empathy and love. It's cut and dry: this action = this consequence. It's up to you. I love this approach because it gave our son the lessons and skills he can use outside of the program in the real world. I feel compelled to point out in this review that you will get the most out of this program if you participate in your son's journey here. Show up. Ask questions. Give constructive feedback. Visit when you can. It's a family affair, parents need to show up even when your kid is acting like a complete monster. I realized I had personal work to do as a parent while my son was away and I know his father felt the same and did the work, too. It was not easy. We are a divorced family that had some still sensitive wounds. Not to mention this was a financial hardship for both of us. But we love our son. So we found a way. And we healed ourselves as we helped our son heal himself. He graduated yesterday and we are so proud of the personal work he has done. Yes, I am anxious and nervous that he will fall. And he is, too. But Resolution Ranch has provided him with the necessary tools for his life. And his family is here to support him, celebrate with him and help him up when he needs it. The rest is up to him. Lastly, I think the world and am so grateful to the staff at the ranch. My son has so much love and admiration for his teachers and therapist. Thanks guys, if you read this. I would be happy to talk to any parent who is considering enrolling their son at the ranch.
Denise LaForge