I have asked for a copy of my 1099 R twice . The ...

I have asked for a copy of my 1099 R twice . The last time was about 10 days ago. I have never received it, nor have I gotten one in the past ll years that I have been retired. I jhave had to call for one every year I do not know if it makes a difference, but this space where I am typing this concern has my husband's name on top, he was not a teacher. I had to ask for an extension on filing for income tax because of the 1099 R needed.